liz from nottingham here, sorry but i wont be posting any new threads for abit

[liztombs]

hi dear all, sorry to say i wont be posting any new threads for abit, because my deppressions gon bad, and im welling up as i write this so be good for now, and the nottingham old lads be good,

p.s any nottingham oldys lads in the site. hey up midducks.

take care all of you
love lizzy :(

[guydewdney]

woah!

why?

whats upset you? notice you are posting at 11 pm on a sat night (my excuse is im not feelign well after getting pissed last night.. :rolleyes: ) what your excuse? ;)

[Yoda]

if this lot here cant pick your mood up..then there is no hope :D

but seriously hope you pick up soon

Yoda

[Jonnyfp]

if this lot here cant pick your mood up..then there is no hope :D

but seriously hope you pick up soon

Yoda

Go an play nunlander its a hoot. :)

[guydewdney]

http://www.yetisports.net/englisch/playonline.html#

fling the penguin!

[Jonnyfp]

http://www.yetisports.net/englisch/playonline.html#

fling the penguin!


Dave gorman site is full of ace games like that. What did you get guy?

[Friar Tuck]

Hey! Where you gone Liz? Come back!
Just as when we were getting to know each other as well!
Story of my life!

[Friar Tuck]

Mmm! Methinks This Liz is a wind up! seen the Birth date?

[Jonnyfp]

Mmm! Methinks This Liz is a wind up! seen the Birth date?


Ah, i see now, only now mind.

[liztombs]

hi :( look chaps im not upset just going thro a bad case of depression, And its horrible. last night i was not drunk becuse ive been sobber for 5weeks.
and i dont give out my birthday date and im not winding peeps up i dont do that.

[Jonnyfp]

hi :( look chaps im not upset just going thro a bad case of depression, And its horrible. last night i was not drunk becuse ive been sobber for 5weeks.
and i dont give out my birthday date and im not winding peeps up i dont do that.


As we where then :D

!st of april eh? :D

[UKRobKLR650]

Bit iffy this, im not havin a go at anyone but sometimes it would help if people were a bit more understanding in a quiet way. I suffer with Clinical Depression and sometimes laughter aint the best policy, sometimes you just need someone to talk at which is bloody hard to do and to understand. I know everyone on heres got their hearts in the right place so please dont think im havin a pop.
Liz, if you ever want a chat just give me a shout.
email is triumph3uk@yahoo.co.uk

[guydewdney]

been there - done that - done the whole prozak thing (lost a whole year of my life, ended up crying in front of the telly to the music from eastenders in the middle of the afternoon still in my dressing gown - at which point i realized somthing was wrong... :rolleyes: )

it IS possible to get out of it.You need friends / friend. you need to take apart your life and deal with the **** one blob at a time - a mountain of problems is scary, a single pebble isnt scary. a mountain is just loads of pebbels on top of each other.


well, thats how i did it....

so - lets start...



deep breath.



sit down.



dont think too much.



problem 1 is???





pm me if you want.

[Yoda]

Good Advice from guydewdney
I think you will find most of us here have suffered from depression (however caused)
and there is a lot of help available

Yoda

[Jonnyfp]

Amen.

It still amazes me how much some you married and cared for, had kids with and shared everything with.
......Quote old man in bar on the wedding singer....

Then rip your heart out of your ass.

Gets easier ya know. Your not alone by any stretch there is always someone worse off than your self believe it or not.

In the big picture of religious war death and famine and global warming planets formin etc etc.

Your own probs can seem pretty small. thats what kept me going that and my little boy.
I sent a pm about that one chuck.

Clinical means that i know. does'nt have to be started by whats happening in your life but just keep the important things in focus and wait. its a cliche' i know but time really is the best healer, in 6 months time you'll wonder what the fuss was about, that i can promise you.

As stated i am always available for a chat.

Take it easy eh?

[guyver1]

Amen.

It still amazes me how much some you married and cared for, had kids with and shared everything with.
......Quote old man in bar on the wedding singer....

Then rip your heart out of your ass.

Gets easier ya know. Your not alone by any stretch there is always someone worse off than your self believe it or not.

In the big picture of religious war death and famine and global warming planets formin etc etc.

Your own probs can seem pretty small. thats what kept me going that and my little boy.
I sent a pm about that one chuck.

Clinical means that i know. does'nt have to be started by whats happening in your life but just keep the important things in focus and wait. its a cliche' i know but time really is the best healer, in 6 months time you'll wonder what the fuss was about, that i can promise you.

As stated i am always available for a chat.

Take it easy eh?

I have to agree, but when you find out your wife slept with the best man on your wedding night, and then your 4 year old son has a gun put to his head by your ex's new parter and your charged with attempted murder cos your ex is now with some crooked cops it can take a little longer than 6 months, But their is always an exeption to the rule as im 1 of those in 2000 men in a divorce who actually kept my son, so there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, as im back in court tomorrow for more of the lies it might be the lights on a freighttrain but after 5 1/2 years i quite enjoy the thrill

[Jonnyfp]

I have to agree, but when you find out your wife slept with the best man on your wedding night, and then your 4 year old son has a gun put to his head by your ex's new parter and your charged with attempted murder cos your ex is now with some crooked cops it can take a little longer than 6 months, But their is always an exeption to the rule as im 1 of those in 2000 men in a divorce who actually kept my son, so there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, as im back in court tomorrow for more of the lies it might be the lights on a freighttrain but after 5 1/2 years i quite enjoy the thrill


Apart from the gun thing which i have to say is a bitch of something to take in, and the cop thing and custody.(i got 50% which i thought was quite good til now.
Thats what happened to me lol.

Proof is right here liz, theres always some one worse off than ya self.

[Jonnyfp]

Oooh look,
i'm a slapper. lmao

[guydewdney]

ow... about the wife / best man thing.


found out my ex had 6 blokes behind my back. delt with it (by initially punching the fuc* out of a wardrobe, but later by talking...)


and im not much of a talker. more of a typer ;)

[Jonnyfp]

ow... about the wife / best man thing.


found out my ex had 6 blokes behind my back. delt with it (by initially punching the fuc* out of a wardrobe, but later by talking...)


and im not much of a talker. more of a typer ;)


6 pah, mine had 19.

[SIZE=1]Nah not really 6 was probably more like it. :D

[Friar Tuck]

hi :( look chaps im not upset just going thro a bad case of depression, And its horrible. last night i was not drunk becuse ive been sobber for 5weeks.
and i dont give out my birthday date and im not winding peeps up i dont do that.
Hi liz,

I apologise if I've upset you. It was not my intention. however, when someone comes on this site posts a couple of times then declares that they won't be posting again, peeps tend to star thinking that it's been a wind up. Hence looking at your birth date, and jumping to the wrong conclusion in my case.

As Mrs.R quite rightly pointed out I do have a Mrs. But me being who I am went into Mr. Humphreys mode and shouted "I'm Free"!

There are some real good friends on this forum. So when you are down it's worth a trawl around here. They will soon support you and have your sides splitting with larfter in the process! ( I can't spell laughter!)

[Doro]

I agree with Friar, it is a bit strange for someone who's new to say bye as if they'd ever been here at all (only 5 posts)

perhaps they were a lurker and felt like they knew us

as for the depression thing

I've suffered from depression ALL my life, or was I just unhappy? Either way it all came to a head in 2000 and I broke down. My daughter (who was 14 at the time) and my best friend saw me through it

even then I was still in a poor state of mind

until I moved 300 miles away for new job and met gypsy.


:)

[Doro]

forgot to add

people used to tell me stuff saying I'd be better and things weren't that bad etc

I couldn't see it ending so I didn't listen

well it is hard to believe anything when depression hits

but they were right, with some life changes, and just one person to support you, and just one person who's life would be ruined if you weren't there (your child eg) then you will make it through the other side

when I was at my worst i used to listen to a song by garbage which had the words

'the trick is to keep breathing'

and that was my mantra, I just had to keep breathing and i'd stay alive

to keep breathing was about the only thing I could concentrate on doing.

I was a single parent with 3 kids, a full time job, 1 friend (who was the best)

no family

or any other support

but I did it

main thing I did to beat depression was to cut everyone out of my life who caused me pain, whether they did it directly or indirectly.

if peeps don't bring love & support & happiness then get away from them, no contact, at all, family ties or not!

it worked for me

but at the time I didn't know it would

the trick is to keep breathing

wishing you all well

:o

[Shudy]

I agree with Friar, it is a bit strange for someone who's new to say bye as if they'd ever been here at all (only 5 posts)

Agreed

perhaps they were a lurker and felt like they knew us

Some sort of running dog isn't it?

as for the depression thing

I've suffered from depression ALL my life, or was I just unhappy? Either way it all came to a head in 2000 and I broke down. My daughter (who was 14 at the time) and my best friend saw me through it

Ah yes some people never have headaches or colds just migraine and influenza syndrome

even then I was still in a poor state of mind

both mind and pocket are poor in my case!

until I moved 300 miles away for new job and met gypsy :)

Hurray a happy ending!!!!

Mind you I wouldn't have told a few on here that I had an 18 year old daughter!!!

[ForestFred]

Agreed



Some sort of running dog isn't it?



Ah yes some people never have headaches or colds just migraine and influenza syndrome



both mind and pocket are poor in my case!



Hurray a happy ending!!!!

Mind you I wouldn't have told a few on here that I had an 18 year old daughter!!! your daughter is safe from me but any goats you might have thats a different story :D

[Shudy]

your daughter is safe from me but any Croats you might have thats a different story :D

Into East Europeans then?

[Doro]

she's 19 now

lol

but my eldest son is 21

hee hee

[liztombs]

just been on the yety games site, and to be honest with you all. ive never laffd so much, its made me feel better :)

[Tim750]

glad you're feeling better nothings better than having a laugh :)

[guyver1]

glad you're feeling better nothings better than having a laugh :)
yes there is.........laughing at someone elses misfortune........doesnt matter how hard you try ......if someone hurts themselves..as long as they havent hurt themselves big time then that is funny, or am i just sad and pathetic....no replies off my ex wife if shes spying hahaha