hugssssss,affection and loving

[ladyrider]

I am an affectionate person..I love hugging..etc..anybody out here hate being affectionate with their squeeeeeeze?..just a thought..I know some people hate showing that in public when they with their wife or girlfriend..can't understand why that be..some people just hate that period..what are you?..hehehehehe :D

[Freak]

I'm totally emotionless.
I don't cry at weddings, funerals or any other happy or sad occasion.
I'm not a huggy kissy person either and I very rarely take peoples feelings
into account..........and I fecking hate being like this :mad:

All motion was drummed out of me as a child by my dad, who is as hard as nails (I don't mean in a fighting sense). I was conditioned by him so I wouldn't cry when I fell over, throw a wobbly when I didn't get me own way, moan, complain, do or say anything which would mean involving him at a personal level. By all accounts his dad was the same. I just hope I can break that cycle should I ever have kids.

Its left me a cold, hollow, empty, stone hearted, person.

Bugger!

[defarter]

I'm totally emotionless.
I don't cry at weddings, funerals or any other happy or sad occasion.
I'm not a huggy kissy person either and I very rarely take peoples feelings
into account..........and I fecking hate being like this :mad:

All motion was drummed out of me as a child by my dad, who is as hard as nails (I don't mean in a fighting sense). I was conditioned by him so I wouldn't cry when I fell over, throw a wobbly when I didn't get me own way, moan, complain, do or say anything which would mean involving him at a personal level. By all accounts his dad was the same. I just hope I can break that cycle should I ever have kids.

Its left me a cold, hollow, empty, stone hearted, person.

Bugger!



Just promise yerself over and over mate not to treat yer kids the same as you was, my old man was a pig when i was growing up, then one day he just was not big enough anymore....my kids walk all over me and i would not have it any other way but they do respect me and there mum, [when i say walk all over me i think most people with kids know what i'm saying] they are not afraid to talk to me and there mum if they have any problems.
What i'm trying to say to yer is when the first one was born i did not need none of the promises i made to meself not even when the other 3 followed :D :D ;)

[Doro]

that's what I'm like


can be like ice or fire


keep everything inside (ask gypsy, he has to fight to get a smile somedays)


tend to withdraw inside myself and have a huge wall around 'me'


I am not as affectionate as I'd like to be, but my kids had a childhood as different to mine as could be

no way would I carry on the sins of my mother :mad:



however when I feel safe and happy I am more loving :D

[Doro]

lol

and before he says anything - gypsy is exactly the same :p

see, well suited eh? ha ha

we muddle through, I expect being the same helps us to understand each other

[kitkatman]

i promised myself that i would never be like my father and i hope i am not, i let my little one be herself and i love her for that, i will not however let her be a little ****, i think i am firm but fair and i would never belittle her, at home or in public, and yes i like hugs

[Jonnyfp]

Me?

I love a good hug off the person i love..I'm in the unusual position of being with someone now who is affectionate and maybe its cos its valentines but she told me she loves us...its been 2 weeks since i got with her.

Thing is its me that opens up too early and scares folk off...its interesting seeing this from the other side but i will use the 3 month ruling cos i do like her.

Just not sure i feel the love thing just yet.....bring!!!



I'm sorry mr FP our time is up.

[Sir Ewok]

I am a romantic and affectionate person. My mum and dad where very open for their generation (i was born in 1948) and I could talk to them about anything. My dad was a lovely man who treated my mum right. They were always broke as he was only a 'Labourer', but they bought their own house and the one next door, because if they didn't, they would lose us kids. It's a long story, so I won't print it here. They worked damn hard and went without and although me dad smoked, he would save his dog-ends and re-roll them to make ends meet. He never hit my mum or me (and only smacked my older brother, when he called me mum an F'ing old cow). He didn't drink much, usually at christmas and didn't gamble. He taught me you don't have to be hard to be a man.
My dad was like a big brother to me and my brothers and would build us wooden scooters with ball-bearing wheels, boats to float on the pond, bows and arrows and all sorts of things. I was really at a loss when he died..... :(